5 tips for using handcuffs during sex
Publicado: 2025-05-06 11:55:28
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The best way to play with restraint is to include handcuffs in foreplay and sex. You've probably heard of handcuffs being associated with BDSM and if you want to practice, handcuffs and restraints are the best products to start with. While they seem pretty self-explanatory, there are a few things you need to know before you start using restraints and handcuffs.
How to choose handcuffs
As with any item you want to bring into the bedroom, you'll need to do some research to find the right product that you both will love. You and your partner should look at the different shackles and restrictions together in order to decide what you want to buy. Researching together ensures you're both on the same page as you embark on this new sexual adventure, and it also serves as a boost to the fun you'll have when the handcuffs finally arrive.
Not all handcuffs are the same. Instead of starting with police-style chrome-metal handcuffs, start with something softer that doesn't require a key to unlock. There are handcuffs made from soft silicone, plush, rope or silk handcuffs that are much more comfortable for beginners.
How to use handcuffs safely during sex
Anyone looking to get into the world of BDSM play, power play, or bondage might find that sex-friendly handcuffs are a sexy but non-intimidating way to get started. Here are some tips for using handcuffs during sex.
Choose the right pair of cuffs
Choose to choose the most comfortable handcuffs among the many options available on the market. Purchase a pair of handcuffs that are meant to be used as sex toys, such as adjustable buckles or elastic silicone. Sliding knotted rope cuffs are also a good introductory option, because you can wiggle your wrists to loosen them if they get too tight in the middle of sex.
Set limits and choose a safe word
It's important to have an open dialogue with your partner about what activities you are comfortable with, especially when thinking about bondage. Before sex, choose a safe word that the handcuffed person can say when their partner crosses a boundary. They might even choose two safe words - one that indicates the dominant partner must stop immediately and another that indicates he can continue but is approaching a limit.
Select a position
There are several positions that allow you to try handcuffs. Before sex, discuss which positions you are both comfortable in to ensure each option is comfortable. One of the simplest positions is to handcuff the passive partner to the head of the bed while he is lying on his back with his hands over his head.
Put on the handcuffs
When you attach handcuffs to your partner or attach them to yourself, they should be tight enough that they don't slip off easily, but not so tight that they hurt the handcuffed person's wrists. Your partner's comfort is the most important thing to keep in mind.
Teasing your partner in handcuffs
Handcuffs allow you and your partner to experience foreplay in a new way, because your partner will want to touch you, but handcuffs prevent you from acting on impulses. You can handcuff your partner to a bed or chair and give them a lap dance or participate in a masturbation session. You can also blindfold your partner, provoke the erogenous zones, perform oral sex on him or stimulate him with a vibrator, dildo, plugs or other sex toys.
